The first head (2nd picture) is something odd
the 2nd one is a 57/58 Modell (would have to check which year they changed that) with the big fins and matches your 1957 model.
Just plane the sealing surface using wet sandpaper on a glas plate. The grating should be not too rough - like 600 ... 1000. Just do a few passes to check if everything is flat.
For the torque: max 15Nm
I usually start at like 5Nm and increase the torque slowly on all bolts equally. If you do it right, there should be no leaks. If it leaks: Do it again and right this time
